Despite Her Reality TV Resumé, Stassi Schroeder’s Dating History Is Pretty Low-Key

For those who can’t get enough of Stassi Schroeder on Vanderpump Villa, I have good news: She’ll be back on our screens soon enough with her latest reality show, House of Stassi. Ever since she was introduced to the world with her iconic zingers and unapologetic bluntness on Vanderpump Rules all those years ago, Stassi has stepped back from the public eye to foster her personal relationships, to which I say, good for her!

She and her husband, Beau Clark, tied the knot back in 2022, and now we’ll get a deeper look into their low-key relationship on House of Stassi. But before the show hits Hulu on July 29, it seems like a good time to brush up on some of her lore. Scroll through Stassi Schroeder’s dating history ahead so you don’t miss a beat when she makes her big return to reality TV.

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While Stassi probably wants to delete any evidence of dating Jax from public consumption, it happens to be one of her first highly publicized relationships. The pair was together long before Vanderpump Rules premiered in 2013, and their ’ship was even one of the main storylines for its first two seasons.

Stassi had speculated that Jax cheated on her during a trip to Vegas—and was even told that he may have gotten somebody pregnant—during season 1. Jax eventually confessed that he had been unfaithful, which led Stassi to break things off. Much of season 2 focused on Jax attempting to win her back with several gestures…err, including that time he got her signature tattooed on the inside of his arm.

They attempted to reconcile, but once Stassi found out he slept with her best friend at the time, Kristen Doute, it was over-over. Their relationship had officially reached the point of no return, but they still went on to film the show—and occasionally promote it—together.

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Frank was another SUR employee who became Stassi’s rebound after she officially broke things off with Jax. Their on-again, off-again connection was pretty brief and documented on Vanderpump Rules, but it eventually ended with a major controversy when he reportedly threatened to sell a private sex tape of her masturbating.

“I wasn’t thinking of myself as somebody who would be famous enough to where… I wasn’t there yet. I was in a long-distance relationship,” she explained to RealityTea at the time. “Like a year later, he tried selling it, like, everywhere. TMZ and all of those places, everyone in those offices saw it, everyone at SUR saw it. It was the worst; I wanted to commit suicide.”

Lisa Vanderpump eventually obtained the video by paying Frank $900 and made sure it wouldn’t be distributed.

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Stassi moved on from Frank to SiriusXM radio host Patrick Meagher when they met on Twitter in 2013. Much of their relationship was kept out of the limelight as she moved to New York City to be closer to him. As a result, Stassi didn’t have as much screen time on Vanderpump Rules, and while Patrick didn’t care to appear on the show, she would talk about the ebbs and flows of their relationship with friends and in confessionals before fully stepping away.

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They eventually relocated back to L.A., and viewers officially met Patrick when he attended Lisa’s season 6 finale party and made suggestive comments about her body, which made both her and Stassi visibly uncomfortable. It’s a hard watch:

Stassi eventually broke things off with Patrick, as she felt she spent much of their relationship trying to earn his approval.

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Before Beau became Stassi’s hubby, the pair met through mutual friends after she called it off with Patrick. She hit it off with the casting director, who became a fan favorite when he made his Vanderpump debut in season 7.

They got engaged in July 2019 and got legally married during an intimate ceremony in 2020 before pushing their wedding back a couple of years due to the COVID-19 pandemic. In May 2022, they officially tied the knot with a stunning destination wedding in Rome, Italy. I mean, just look at the material:

The couple has since welcomed two children—a daughter, Hartford, and a son, Messer—together in 2021 and 2023. Can’t wait to see their relationship take center stage on House of Stassi.